How shall I put it
The neighbour, me and my wife, went cycling.
The wife and I, with the neighbour, went cycling.
I went cycling with two buddies.
Of course when we cycle my wife is no longer my wife she is my cycling buddy. Your wife is only your wife some of the time. Many times you have to find other things to do together. Like cycling. But it is not good for my esteem because she can cycle, being Belgian and all.
All in all it was good fun. Like I said, two weeks ago I did a cycle in the snow, last week it was minus 5 degrees and today it is 15 degrees so we just had to go out and enjoy it.